NOTE: The following essay
contains spoilers to my book The Midknight. If you have NOT read the
story, I suggest you read it first before reading the following essay.
Part II: Love, Friendship & Letting Go
Throughout The Midknight
Jesse often has trouble with letting go. Not only with present feelings and
situations that humiliate or sadden him, but also of his past -- especially the
hurtful memories -- and the future (he is always worried about what will become
of him and the ones he loves). Rather than living in the present, Jesse often
wastes his valuable time reflecting on the past, thinking of his family and
reliving the unfairness of being separated from his loving mother and sisters.
These strong emotions of love and loss that Jesse lets overtake him are what
lead to his eventual downfall. He does not care about what happens to anyone
else in the world around him. All he cares about is him and his family and his
girlfriend and it is this worry for their well-being that unconsciously
transforms into a fear of losing them, which is a form of greed.
How is fear of losing someone seen
as greed? Well, it depends on the context. While some might say that you should
fight for what you want and keep a hold of it, most philosophers would argue
that no person is something that you should have to "fight for" nor
is someone an object that you can or should "hold on to." If someone
decides to leave you, that is their conscious decision to make and they have a
right to make it. Whether they leave because of not wanting to be around you
anymore or because they don't feel connected to you anymore or because of some
other circumstantial situation, it is their decision and should be respected.
To not let go and try to keep a hold on a relationship they no longer want
would be only beneficial to your desires and that is greed.
On the other hand, if they were
taken from us through means beyond either their or our control (such as death),
then it becomes an issue of accepting the natural process of life. No matter
how difficult, some eventually accept it and some don't. After all, death is a
part of living and we all must deal with it, regardless of how early is comes
to those we care about or not. When Jesse sees his sister Karen killed, his
love for her is then turned to a bitter rage that drives him to murder her
killer.
A world in which people love their
parents, siblings and children so much that they are willing to go to great lengths
to save them or avenge them is a morally better world than one in which people
lack such feelings. People are more likely to develop a strong moral character,
and to have richer lives in general, when they are capable of such great and
unconditional love for others. And because of this, it is a byproduct of his
family's love that drives Jesse into his rage, and that is understandable.
Nevertheless, his anger (toward the killer) eventually turns to a sad
"woe-is-me" feeling that he turns toward himself. He wishes he
could've done more even though the situation was actually out of his hands.
Just as the lives of those we care about are out of our hands most times, so it
is with Jesse and his sister. His rage and guilt over her death are all part of
a downward spiral that will echo throughout the story and lead him to a
depressing life. For all the good it creates, the love of family is not always
a good moral motive. Certainly, love is a powerful motive -- more powerful than
hate or anger as most disputes are born out of love or concern for someone
close to us (when was the last time you heard of someone willing to die
over someone they disliked?) -- and it can be difficult to control. In
addition, the capacity to love is itself intrinsically good, and it thereby
creates a great good in people's lives.
Still, despite its great potential,
love can also be morally selfish. There's a huge difference between
unconditional love and erotic/romantic love. Unconditional love is a form of
compassion, a higher and more universal form of love, while erotic/romantic
love can become an intense personal attachment which leads to fear of loss and
greed. More precisely, compassion is a selfless love, involving a deep,
cherishing concern for each individual as having intrinsic value. That is,
individuals are valued for their own sake, regardless of their capacity to
acheive anything else.
And, as seen in The Midknight, this
kind of attachment can be to anyone (even family). It's when we focus our
attention exclusively on those we love, that we then can become blind to the
anguish of others. They can cease to exist for us morally and that's when
personal attachment leads to greed and selfishness. The exclusive love of our
own families and our own groups (or significant other) is the root cause of the
intolerance that leads to too many of the great crimes committed by humanity.
Another kind of connection to those
we love is friendships. Aristotle's analysis of friendship comes into play in
regards to Vanessa, her best friend Amanda and Amanda's boyfriend Mark -- the
three friends in the story who find their relationship challenged once Jesse
comes onto the scene. Their friendship is built on their popularity (moreover,
at the beginning, Vanessa and Amanda are friends merely because of their social
status and interest in clothes); in most ways, it is a friendship of pleasure.
The change that their friendship undergoes is a metaphor for the change that
all younger people, teenagers especially, go through when they hit a certain
age. Unfortunately, a young person's friendship of pleasure is not often
stable. Aristotle explains: "For their lives are guided by their feelings,
and they pursue above all what is pleasant for themselves and what is near at
hand. But as they grow up, what they find pleasant changes too. Hence they are
quick to become friends and quick to stop."
As for the small bond that both
Jesse and his counterpart, Gideon, have --whose relationship is merely one
of utility, they are different. Although Gideon and Jesse's first encounter
seems somewhat friendly and Gideon tries to persuade Jesse to join his team, he
is only keeping Jesse alive for something that he wants: the serum. Clearly,
what we have here is a case where there could be no continual relationship or
friendship. A virtuous man (Jesse) cannot use the services of a vicious man
(Gideon) in such a way that it constitutes a friendship. Collaboration with
corruption corrupts. So perhaps we should view utility friendships as having
this in common with complete friendships: if one party is virtuous, then that
constitutes a constraint on what the other party can be. If one of the friends
descends into evil, even an utility friendship with a virtuous person must end.
Prussian philosopher Immanuel Kant
said, "We should always act so that we treat humanity ... always as an end
in itself and never as a means only." By putting other people's lives or
needs under our loved ones, we are using them merely as tools for our own
purposes. We do not respect them as full human beings with their own goals and
values, but as something expendable whenever they get in our way. Moreover, to
do so when those actions will not even help our loved one treats people as mere
beasts. And that is such a fundamental moral flaw that anyone's capacity for
love can't redeem their character.
Most intense love relationships stem
from a deep passion. Jesse's undying love for Vanessa certainly does. In The
Midknight, Jesse's concern for her life outweighs any other person's civil
rights, such as their classmate George. Sure, George is a bad guy, but he
doesn't necessarily deserve the fiery, painful death that Jesse dishes out.
Because of Jesse's passionate love for Vanessa, he goes to extremes to protect
her and takes someone's life. There is no virtue in his action and, as it is
quite often shown throughout the book, his passion and love drive him to
corruptible, vicious acts.
This kind of passion can become a
driving force for evil in a way that we didn't know possible. For instance, a
crucial moment in Georg Wilhelm Friedrich Hegel's Phenomenology of Spirit
is the love of the intellectual and magician Faust for the young maid Gretchen
(a half-inspiration for Jesse and Vanessa), a love that is made possible only
through Faust's bargain with the devil -- to give up his soul in exchange for
the intense experience of life that can only be found through love. This is
indeed what the power of love seems to be for the separate ego -- the very loss
of one's soul. Such love, which Faust obtains by giving himself over to the
powers of darkness, brings about death to Gretchen as well as peril to the immortal
soul of the lover. And even though the true meaning of the sacred journey of
the hero is infinite love, it is a love for all of mankind and not simply one
group or person.
Just like Faust, what starts out as
a good intention for someone you love might turn out to be their destruction
and maybe your own (the first example that comes to mind is Anakin Skywalker
and Padme Amidala in Star Wars Episode III: Revenge of the Sith). The
"law of unintended consequences" ensues and can be seen in everyday
life; someone ends up committing a horrendous act, to their own surprise, and
against the very people he was aiming to help, or at least avenge. The
knowledge or action that he thought was sufficient to take or guide him ended
up being a tissue of fantasy and falsehood, and it led to tragedy. Certainly,
this happens to Jesse and Vanessa. After she is beaten by her alcoholic,
estranged father, Jesse hunts him down to avenge her (even though he promised
Vanessa he wouldn't) and beats the man to a bloody pulp. At the end of the
story, it is not any of the book's main villains that lead to Vanessa's demise
but her own father who is seeking to protect his daughter from being touched by
"the piece of shit" he believes Jesse to be, because Jesse
unmercifully beats him. The father shoots at them and unknowingly kills his own
daughter. And the father came after them because Jesse's love for Vanessa
overcame him and drove him to disobey her and beat on her father. That led to
the father's own malice and the only innocent of the group is killed.
Our ancestors, in both the east and
the west, thought of emotions as things that are external to the self which,
when allowed to determine our actions, undermine our freedom and autonomy. We
think of the emotions as internal to the self, and we correspondingly consider
emotional expression to be an expression of the true self. The word
"passion" interestingly comes from the same root as the word
"passive," because, for our ancestors, it was part and parcel of being
under the influence of a passion that our ability to determine our own actions
-- that is, our ability to act freely -- was being seriously undermined.
One main group of philosophers who
believed in this (and would find in The Midknight many great examples of
why their teachings are important) were the Stoics. Stoicism is the ancient
Greek philosophy that originated in the third century B.C.E. in the
"Stoa" or porch where Zeno of Citium taught in Athens. Stoicism
counsels acting virtuously and without emotional disturbance while living in
harmony with fate (think of Yoda in the Star Wars movies).
The Stoics understood
"passion" (pathos in Greek) to be a disturbing, unhealthy
movement of the soul. They believed that there are no degrees of goodness
either. Until a man is good, he is bad. However, the Stoic is not devoid of all
emotion. They believed that there were three "good emotional states"
that were not pathological movements of the soul, namely, benevolence (wishing
someone good things for their own sake), joy (in virtuous deeds), and caution
(reasonable wariness). On the other hand, emotions seem necessary to motivate
action, and despite the presumption that they hinder the exercise of reason,
emotions are sometimes capable of an intuitive canniness that guides reason when
it falters. Aristotle, for example, observed that without a certain type of
anger, one would be unable to perceive when one is unjustly dishonored.
However, anger is the emotion of aggression, and aggression without reason is
brute danger. The ancient Roman Stoic Seneca called anger "the most
hideous and frenzied of all the emotions." Seneca thought angry people
were insane, saying of anger: "Oblivious of decency, heedless of personal
bonds, obstinate and intent on anything once started, closed to reasoning or
advice, agitated on pretexts without foundation, incapable of discerning
fairness and truth, it most resembles those ruins which crash in pieces over
what they have crushed."
Jesse's anger is as a result not so
much from the serum (albeit it enhances his emotion) but comes from the loving
relationships that he longs to hold onto and keep. The anger all stems from the
romantic ideas of love and concern and being afraid to lose them; Jesse becomes
so twisted up in his protecting and loving his family and girlfriend that he
soon is willing to sacrifice others for them. His care turns into greed and
that greed spawns suffering and hate, which, in contrast to Aristotle's point,
turns him, and his "mission," into a brute danger for her peers and
those he loves. He has no other concern other than them and loses "the big
picture."